What do you know about the Arrival Fallacy? Maybe I should wind back a little...

Last week, the world’s top-ranked golfer, Scottie Scheffler, went viral - not for a jaw-dropping shot or a championship win, but for his honest reflection on what it truly feels like to reach the summit of his profession. During a pre-tournament interview at The Open Championship, Scheffler was asked a seemingly straightforward question: “What would be the longest you’ve ever celebrated something?”

His response, raw and deeply personal, has since resonated with millions across the globe. “It feels like you work your whole life to celebrate winning a tournament for like a few minutes. It only lasts a few minutes, that kind of euphoric feeling... And then it’s like, what are we going to eat for dinner?” 

Scheffler went on to admit, “This is not a fulfilling life. It’s fulfilling from the sense of accomplishment, but it’s not fulfilling from the sense of the deepest places of your heart... There’s a lot of people that make it to what they thought was going to fulfill them in life and then you get there and all of a sudden you get to number 1 in the world and you’re like what’s the point?”

For many business leaders and executives, Scheffler’s words cut close to the bone. On the surface, it might seem almost ungrateful - a man at the pinnacle of his career, expressing emptiness after achieving what most can only dream of. But dig a little deeper, and you’ll find he’s naming a universal experience: the arrival fallacy.


What is the Arrival Fallacy

The arrival fallacy is the mistaken belief that achieving a specific goal or reaching a particular milestone will bring lasting happiness and contentment. It’s the sense that “once I get there, then I’ll finally feel fulfilled.” In the business world, it’s the idea that landing the promotion, closing the big deal, or scaling your company to a certain revenue figure will finally deliver that elusive sense of arrival.

But as Scheffler so poignantly described, the euphoria of achievement is often fleeting. The celebration is short-lived. And then comes the quiet question: “Now what?”

Why Success Alone Isn't Enough

As a coach working with high-performing executives and leaders, I see the arrival fallacy play out every day. It’s not just world-class athletes who fall into this trap. It’s CEOs, entrepreneurs, and senior managers - people who have spent years, sometimes decades, climbing their respective mountains with the hope that the view from the top will be transformative.

The reality? The summit rarely feels as different as we imagine. Yes, there may be a moment of exhilaration. But it fades. The emails keep coming. The next target appears on the horizon. The “finish line” moves further away.

This isn’t to say that ambition is bad or that goals are pointless. Far from it. Ambition drives innovation and progress. Goals give us direction. But when we pin our sense of self-worth and fulfillment entirely on external achievements, we set ourselves up for disappointment.

The Human Cost of the Arrival Fallacy

The arrival fallacy isn’t just a philosophical problem - it has real consequences for leaders and organisations. When executives chase one milestone after another without ever feeling satisfied, it can lead to burnout, disengagement, and even a crisis of purpose.

I’ve worked with leaders who, after selling their companies or reaching the C-suite, find themselves struggling with motivation and meaning. They ask, “Why don’t I feel happier? Why does this success feel so hollow?” These are not signs of weakness - they are signs of being human.

Why the Arrival Fallacy Is So Persistent

The arrival fallacy is hardwired into us. From an early age, we’re taught to pursue goals—get the grades, land the job, earn the promotion. Society rewards achievement, but rarely teaches us how to find fulfillment along the way.

Add to this the relentless pace of modern business, where targets are constantly moving and “success” is redefined every quarter, and it’s no wonder so many leaders feel restless, even at the pinnacle of their careers.

How to Overcome the Arrival Fallacy

So, what can business leaders do to break free from the arrival fallacy? Here are a few practical steps:

1. Redefine Success

Shift your focus from outcomes to values and impact. Ask yourself, “What kind of leader do I want to be? What legacy do I want to leave?” Let your core values—respect, integrity, honesty, learning - guide your decisions.

2. Celebrate Progress, Not Just Milestones

Take time to acknowledge small wins and everyday growth. Success is a journey, not a destination.

3.Invest in Relationships

True fulfillment often comes from connection - with your team, your family, your community. Don’t sacrifice relationships on the altar of achievement.

4. Practice Self-Compassion

Recognise that feeling unfulfilled after reaching a goal is normal. Give yourself permission to feel, reflect, and reset.

5. Find Meaning Beyond Work

Pursue passions outside the boardroom. Whether it’s sport, art, volunteering, or simply spending time in nature, these experiences can provide a deeper sense of purpose.

A Personal Reflection

Scottie Scheffler’s viral interview struck a chord because it revealed a truth we all recognise, but rarely say out loud: success, in itself, is never enough. The arrival fallacy is a trap that business leaders, executives, and top performers fall into time and again.

The good news? Once you see the arrival fallacy for what it is - a mirage, not a destination - you can begin to build a life and career that’s rich in meaning, connection, and genuine fulfillment.

So, the next time you hit a major milestone, pause. Celebrate. But remember: the real journey is not about arriving. It’s about how you travel, who you travel with, and the impact you make along the way.

Ready to break free from the arrival fallacy and build lasting fulfillment in your leadership journey?
If you’re a business leader or executive who wants more than just fleeting success, let’s talk. I offer a free 30-minute consultation to help you reconnect with purpose, redefine what success means, and create sustainable impact - for yourself and your organisation.

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